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Thursday, May 31, 2007

Evry relationship has its pluses and minuses. For a strong relationship that satisfies both the partners, i hav 2 consider myself, Hayrie & e character of our relationship. i reali hope dat we cn manage to get into a relationship & hav a long trouble-free journey..... today,i hv read through a couple of advice which i tot useful 4 all of u who read dis..mayb itz true cos not all of us r purrfect..e relationshp bcomes strong once the partners realize dat they understand each other.. dat bond of understanding can cross any obstacle on e way 2 bliss..gd luck to ur love journey!

Many relationships break down because of communication. The partners do not communicate their true feelings to each other. Not only that, they also assume that the other will understand what is in their mind. Good communication is one more essential element. With good communication, you can solve many issues which otherwise may blow up your relationship. Communication demands very good understanding of each other and understanding verbal and non-verbal signals.

Every relationship that we have, is to make us feel happy. We relate to each other to get and give joy to each other in various ways. Sometimes the relationships don't go as planned and remain stagnant, with no meaning. But what if a relationship comes down to a level where one of the partner feels that he/she is getting destroyed? That relationship is bad and destructive. Unless there is some reason that can be identified and rectified, the relationship should be broken.

The game of blame. That not only kills a beautiful relationship but creates hatred between two lovers. Why those who were in deep love suddenly found that everything was wrong with each other and the relation? Let us look at a deep relationship. In such a relationship, everything is ours. It is neither yours nor mine. Its all ours. Even if one partner blunders, the other partner supports him/her. Same with joy. Both experience the joy of each others achievements.

In personal relationships, we are not supposed to punish the other person in any way for whatever fault. At the most, we have the freedom to move away if we find that our partner keeps on repeating destructive behavior. We should either move away or come together again. To continue with the blame game and living together will not produce any result other than pain. Blames are not the disease but the symptom of the disease that is hurting your relationship.

Sunday, May 27, 2007

whoaaaaaa..best ar...yestrday was Dini's bday...it was a Blast! well actuali itz on Thurs..so we've got lotsa of food readi on e table lyke e laksa,'bone'(sup tulang lar...),chicken wings/nuggets/fries(speciali ordered frm Do & Me)etc..not forgetting the greeeen bday cake...so aniwae i bought Dini a Barney Doodle Board & a musical 'Barney' Songbook...well i reali hope she lykes it.. niwae dis cutie pie got lotz of presentz lar..itz so nice 2 b kid..young & chubby...if only i could turn back tyme...Haiiiiizzzz....toooo bad dear can't b dere cos he got 2 werk..itz ok, wat past is past..in future he cn try 2 celebrate wif Dini again..i enjoyed maself though even wifout Hayrie...hahaaha..cunning huh?? ney..juz kidding!

Tuesday, May 22, 2007

helo dere..

i'm feeling kinda lonely rite now..

didnt noe watz running thru my mind..

stil confused of wat we've been thru..

as if we r trapped sumwhere..

& we cant solve it!!!!

but no matter wat happens, i noe u wil always be around 4 me..

although how bz u r wif ur takraw..
wif ur fishing...

or bz working...
find urself the tyme 2 rest..

dun stres up...

no matter wat happens, i will alwayz try 2 b dere 4 u...

Thursday, May 17, 2007

went bowling wif dear, ayah & abah..at CSC Bukit Batok..yesterdy..i asked huda to accompany me but dat hippo reali pemalas lar..niwae had fun although i had hard tyme catching up my points wif e 3 heroes.. overall,itz fun cos i get to beat my dear's point with strikes at first but he stil win me lar..itz ok...after dat we went home 2 my place for a mini bday feast for mak..actualy her bday is today..but we celebrated yestrdy cos today everyone wil be back home late ..so we bought her a choco mint cake wif Indian rojak..thx dear for the rojak..

Thursday, May 17, 2007

ok2,i noe itz been a looooong tyme since i updated my blog...im so damn lazy lar..n i had probs wif dis blog cos it juz cant upload my pics!! sharkz!
baru nak meriah nak load gambar...haiz.. niwae i had so much fun laz weekend at the chalet wif my BIG,JUMBO size families celebrating MOTHER'S dAY..got all the dads to sing & dedicate romantic stuffz to the moms..the children sang & dance..got all the food bbqued..crazy tings happening in the house itself...the most touching part was when we asked Cik Amat to say a few words to the moms..itz heartbreaking to see Cik Amat's reaction..mcm nak nangis gua ckp sama lu..he's lonely without Ibu Ben on his side to celebrate the occasion..after dat,he called Ibu Ben in Japan..kecian Ibu..itz ok,we'll get to enjoy it again next yr wif u..insyaallah..
(at laz i can upload my picz..ambik ko..)

on our way to the chalet..

hepi nyer semue....

Friday, May 4, 2007

Friday, May 04, 2007

When I ate today at noon
All I could think about was you

Wishing you was here with me too

Wishing I could feed you with my spoon

Hoping someday I'll see your smile again..

I don't know if I can take all this pain

Knowing that I am here and you are there

Thinking about the times we had and will not have..

You are the best there ever was and will be

There is nothing to explain you, but lovely

Even when I was sad you made me happy..

I just don't know what to do

I just hope one day, I get to see you..

p/s: im terribly missing my 'huggie boncit bear' now..

Thursday, May 3, 2007

Thursday, May 03, 2007

been a long time i havent update my bloggie..no tyme ler..niwae went to IMM Giant yesterdy wif Huda & Dear..went shopping 4 the BBQ.. we had so much fun checking out on watz stuff we should buy..Huda & Dear as usual lyke 'cat & dog'..im lyke the 'mom' trying to resolve the 'kiddos' from their nonsense..itz totally madness!!

*Smack Forehead*