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Thursday, May 31, 2007

Evry relationship has its pluses and minuses. For a strong relationship that satisfies both the partners, i hav 2 consider myself, Hayrie & e character of our relationship. i reali hope dat we cn manage to get into a relationship & hav a long trouble-free journey..... today,i hv read through a couple of advice which i tot useful 4 all of u who read dis..mayb itz true cos not all of us r purrfect..e relationshp bcomes strong once the partners realize dat they understand each other.. dat bond of understanding can cross any obstacle on e way 2 bliss..gd luck to ur love journey!

Many relationships break down because of communication. The partners do not communicate their true feelings to each other. Not only that, they also assume that the other will understand what is in their mind. Good communication is one more essential element. With good communication, you can solve many issues which otherwise may blow up your relationship. Communication demands very good understanding of each other and understanding verbal and non-verbal signals.

Every relationship that we have, is to make us feel happy. We relate to each other to get and give joy to each other in various ways. Sometimes the relationships don't go as planned and remain stagnant, with no meaning. But what if a relationship comes down to a level where one of the partner feels that he/she is getting destroyed? That relationship is bad and destructive. Unless there is some reason that can be identified and rectified, the relationship should be broken.

The game of blame. That not only kills a beautiful relationship but creates hatred between two lovers. Why those who were in deep love suddenly found that everything was wrong with each other and the relation? Let us look at a deep relationship. In such a relationship, everything is ours. It is neither yours nor mine. Its all ours. Even if one partner blunders, the other partner supports him/her. Same with joy. Both experience the joy of each others achievements.

In personal relationships, we are not supposed to punish the other person in any way for whatever fault. At the most, we have the freedom to move away if we find that our partner keeps on repeating destructive behavior. We should either move away or come together again. To continue with the blame game and living together will not produce any result other than pain. Blames are not the disease but the symptom of the disease that is hurting your relationship.